WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES…

Sherry Argov’s definition of a “bitch” is Babe ITotal Control of Herself , not Because I Took Charlie’s House.

This book is actually really interesting, and I agree with majority of the rules and principles listed in Sherry’s book due to my own personal experiences. It’s definitely a good read (for both genders) and I think I finished the book in 2 days.

Here’s an excerpt from the book:

“When I polled men, they all said confident women are in very short supply. And that a confident woman is what they find sexiest. Is it any wonder that confident women are hard to come by? Look around. The average fashion magazine tells women to act like a servant, as if dating were a labor-intensive, blue-collar-job application: “Can you serve a cold beer in trashy lingerie? Do you leave razor-sharp creases in his shirts like employee-of-the-month at the Jolly Roger motel? Do you wear cellophane for him? Are you gardening in stilettos? Are you giving it up doggie-style? If so, he’ll drop to one knee and propose …”

What women are learning from all of this is how to behave desperately. When her attitude is “Pick me! Pick me!” she hits the kill switch on his desire. It’s human nature. You’d be just as turned off by a guy who brought two dozen roses to a first coffee date and told you he felt like the luckiest SOB on the planet in the first five minutes.

It’s human nature. Telling a woman to work harder to please is like telling a little kid to walk up to a schoolyard bully on the first day of school and say, “Here, take my lunch money. And you can have my cupcakes too. I’ll even throw in my lunchbox since you don’t have one.” Or, in a dating situation, “Here, take my body. And I made you a cake. Please be nice. Please marry me. I’ll even jack my butt up nice and high like they do in yoga. It’s so comfortable being upside down. Really. I just love it!”

Just because a man sleeps with you doesn’t mean he’s thinking about the future. For him to think about forever, there has to be something he respects within you. Like a strong wit … and a strong mind.”

 

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5 thoughts on “WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES…

  1. This does make sense, men do think of the future with another woman when there is respect involved. Other types of woman can be seen as objects for temporarily pleasure by men. That is why I never recommend woman throwing themselves at a guy they love.

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